Savor The Moment
I’ve been known to say “It’s the moments that count.” I said it in my book, chapter 1 to be precise. Just as in a marriage, it is true during the divorce process as well. We tend to put a great...
View ArticleFear Of Loss
“The most beautiful people I’ve known are those who have known trials, have known struggles, have known loss, and have found their way out of the depths.” ―...
View ArticleOn the 12th Day of Christmas
Speaking of perfection…do you fear your Christmas won’t be up to snuff? Your gifts will be all ‘wrong’, your meal burnt? Well, join the club. Even though I’m almost finished my shopping, I still...
View ArticleHow Will You Tell Your Story?
AS each new day unfolds, so does your story. Will you tell yours? How will you tell it? Will it be a comedic play, a romantic novel, a love song, a dramatic film or serious documentary. Maybe...
View ArticleI Heart Me Day
From the archives…Feeling pissed about Cupid this year? It’s difficult after separation to feel inspired about a day dedicated to love when you feel your heart is broken. But in order to mend your...
View ArticleThe Good Wife Part 2
Last year I wrote about Alicia Florrick of The Good Wife. I took a look at her character and how she sacrifices for a cheating husband. She’s a great character study in discussing marriage, divorce,...
View ArticleTelling Your Kids About Your Divorce-Don’t Make These Mistakes
I’m working on a series of videos with ‘bite sized’ tips. All of the videos will cover topics related to divorce. I wanted to share one of them here because it’s a very important topic. Telling...
View ArticleFinding Your Inner Sex Goddess
From the archives one of my favorites and just in time for flesh baring clothes…. Hello, where have you been? That’s what you’ll be asking when you find her. I can’t think of a better time then...
View ArticlePlenty of Fish In the Sea? Watch Out for Sharks
10 Red flags that indicate your new man is a SHARK and NOT a fish. Divorced women become unwitting prey for sharks skimming along just below the surface. They’re under the radar with their fin and...
View Article50 Things I’ve Learned
In honor of my 50th birthday…gulp…I’m sharing my humble list of 50 things I’ve learned in 50 years. Some things are funny. Some are things you’ll say “She’s just figured that out now?” Yes, I’m...
View ArticleAre Our Fashion Mistakes Like Our Men?
We think it’s the right dress for us. We loved that color at the time…but now looking back at an old photo we wonder “What was I thinking?” Huge shoulder pads, ‘pleather’ pants, floral material at the...
View ArticleI’m Grateful In Spite Of the C Word
The big ‘C’ is almost here. Instead of getting all anxious and thinking about what could possibly go wrong (presents aren’t wrapped, Santa forgot something or someone, the stockings aren’t full enough...
View ArticleSt. Valentines Selfie
Happy Valentine’s Day, Escapees…treat yourself well and with LOVE. Subscribe to the blog Know someone who would enjoy this post? Share it! Share on Tumblr
View ArticleThink Twice
I wrote this piece last Spring but have never published it until now. I was moved and inspired by a video made by The New York City Rescue Mission. With the #1000VoicesSpeakforCompassion movement...
View ArticleFor the Good Guys
I have been contacted by some really great guys here at the Great Escape blog. One of them said to me last week “I have a strong feeling that many men like myself who could benefit from your words are...
View ArticleAlone But Connected #1000Speak
#1000VoicesSpeak for Compassion today and on the 20th of every month. The subject this month? CONNECTION. We don’t always feel it. My first thought on this topic was how often I have felt disconnected...
View ArticleAre You Worthy?
First, YES, you are worthy. WE are all worthy. Except isn’t it true that we have been either taught or heard that recording in our minds that says we are NOT worthy? WE do not deserve…but it’s a lie....
View ArticleWe Rise
I saw this quote on facebook the other day and I thought it was so beautiful: “We rise by lifting others.” I’m not sure who said it but it sounds very much like the late poet Maya Angelou. I was...
View Article7 Deadly Signs He’s Not The One For You
Forget the sins, let’s talk about the signs. Deadly ones. Meaning if two or more of these are in your relationship then stop, drop and roll it over. In other words, stop any plans for marriage, drop...
View ArticleDestiny Or Decision?
I was recently told “You are very much a daughter of destiny.” It’s an interesting statement. It begs the question; Are our experiences and life-events destined or are they a result of our own...
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